Dating Safety Guide - PositiveSingles | Online & Offline Safety Tips

Essential Safety Reminders

Protect Your Privacy

Never share personal information like your full name, address, or financial details in early conversations.

Use Platform Features

Leverage PositiveSingles' built-in messaging, video chat, and verification systems for secure communication.

Take Your Time

Build trust gradually. There's no rush to meet offline or share intimate details about your health status.

Trust Your Instincts

If something feels wrong, it probably is. Report suspicious behavior and block users who make you uncomfortable.

Online Dating Safety

Creating a secure online presence while building meaningful connections requires strategic awareness and smart platform usage.

Profile Security Best Practices

Photo Selection: Use recent, clear photos that represent you authentically without revealing identifying locations or personal details in the background.
Information Sharing: Share your health status when you're comfortable, but avoid including specific medical details or treatment information in your public profile.
Contact Information: Never include phone numbers, email addresses, or social media handles in your profile description.
Location Privacy: Use general location settings rather than specific addresses or workplace information.

Secure Communication Strategies

PositiveSingles provides multiple layers of communication security designed specifically for our community's unique privacy needs:

Platform Messaging: Always start conversations through our secure messaging system, which encrypts all communications and allows easy reporting of inappropriate behavior.
Video Chat Verification: Use our integrated video chat feature to verify identity before considering offline meetings. This helps confirm the person matches their photos and builds trust gradually.
Anonymous Browsing: Utilize our anonymous browsing feature to explore profiles privately without leaving a digital footprint until you're ready to engage.
Selective Photo Sharing: Take advantage of our private photo galleries to share additional images only with trusted connections.

Advanced Privacy Protection

Health Information Security

Your health status is sensitive information that deserves the highest level of protection. PositiveSingles employs HIPAA-compliant security measures to safeguard your medical information.

Our Protection Measures:

End-to-end encryption for all health-related communications
Secure servers with regular security audits and updates
Strict access controls limiting who can view your information
Anonymous profile options for maximum discretion

Digital Footprint Management

Control your online presence and minimize unwanted exposure through strategic privacy settings and smart digital habits.

Privacy Control Tools:

Granular visibility settings for different profile sections
Selective photo sharing with approval controls
Anonymous browsing mode for discreet profile viewing
Instant block and report functions for unwanted contact

Safe Offline Meetings

Transitioning from online conversations to in-person meetings requires careful planning and safety precautions to ensure positive experiences.

Pre-Meeting Preparation

Video Verification: Always have at least one video conversation before meeting in person to confirm identity and build comfort.
Background Research: Use PositiveSingles' verification features to confirm profile authenticity and review mutual connections or community involvement.
Health Disclosure Timeline: Ensure both parties are comfortable with the level of health information shared and respect boundaries around disclosure timing.
Meeting Planning: Choose public, well-lit locations for first meetings and inform trusted friends or family about your plans.

First Date Safety Protocol

Safety Aspect	Recommended Action	Why It Matters
Transportation	Drive yourself or use rideshare	Maintains independence and exit options
Location	Public venues with good lighting	Ensures safety and comfort for both parties
Duration	Keep first meetings to 1-2 hours	Allows assessment without pressure
Communication	Check in with a trusted friend	Provides safety net and accountability

Leveraging PositiveSingles Safety Features

Our platform offers specialized tools designed specifically for the unique needs of our community, ensuring both safety and meaningful connections.

Verified Profile System

Our multi-step verification process ensures authentic profiles and reduces the risk of catfishing or fraudulent accounts.

How to Use:

Complete photo verification by submitting a selfie with a specific pose
Verify your email address and phone number for added security
Look for verification badges when browsing profiles
Prioritize connections with verified members for enhanced safety

Private Photo Galleries

Control who sees your photos with our selective sharing system, allowing you to build trust gradually while maintaining privacy.

Best Practices:

Start with public photos that don't reveal personal information
Use private galleries for more personal or identifying images
Grant access only after establishing trust through conversation
Regularly review and update photo access permissions

Secure Video Chat

Our integrated video chat system provides a safe way to verify identity and build connections without sharing personal contact information.

Safety Guidelines:

Use video chat before meeting in person to verify identity
Choose neutral backgrounds that don't reveal personal information
Start with shorter video calls and gradually increase duration
Report any inappropriate behavior during video interactions

Anonymous Browsing

Explore profiles privately without leaving traces, giving you control over when and how you reveal your interest.

Strategic Usage:

Browse profiles discreetly while deciding on potential matches
Research potential connections without pressure
Maintain privacy while exploring the community
Use regular browsing mode when ready to engage openly

Recognizing Red Flags

Stay alert to warning signs that may indicate unsafe or dishonest behavior. Trust your instincts and prioritize your safety.

Communication Red Flags

Requests for money, gifts, or financial assistance
Pressure to move conversations off the platform immediately
Inconsistent stories about personal details or background
Excessive flattery or declarations of love very early
Refusal to video chat or talk on the phone
Aggressive or disrespectful language about health status

Profile Red Flags

Limited photos or photos that seem too professional
Vague or contradictory profile information
No verification badges or incomplete profile sections
Recent profile creation with extensive relationship history claims
Photos that don't match the person's described age or location
Inappropriate or overly sexual profile content

Behavioral Red Flags

Pushing for personal information too quickly
Disrespecting boundaries around health disclosure
Making you feel guilty for taking safety precautions
Showing up unannounced or stalking behavior
Pressuring for intimate photos or personal details
Dismissive attitude toward safe dating practices

Emergency Resources & Support

Immediate Danger

If you're in immediate physical danger:

Call 911

Don't hesitate to contact emergency services if you feel threatened or unsafe.

PositiveSingles Support

Report safety concerns or inappropriate behavior:

Use the "Report" button on any profile or message
Contact our safety team: safety@positivesingles.com
24/7 support hotline: 1-800-PS-SAFETY

Mental Health Support

Professional resources for emotional support:

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988
Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
SAMHSA Helpline: 1-800-662-4357

STD Resources

Health information and support:

CDC STD Information: 1-800-CDC-INFO
American Sexual Health Association
Local health department resources

Your Safety is Our Priority